Double Edged Sword

Just now was the perfect example as to how close or lived I'm considered. Yesterday was my birthday. The evening before I was asked what kind of cake or desert did I want, as well as whati wanted for dinner. The morning of my birthday, I get up as any other day. Got some hugs and considerations from the kids as well an appreciated promise from one of them not to misbehave on my day. Needed to do errands, so we did them. Kids needed picked up. So I did that. Shit had been left outside in the rain from either kids or dipshit adults and then being guilt tripped into needing to help cause it's too much work to do alone supposedly. No one needed help making the mess right...